Relationship tools from Youman Growth
The conversations every couple wishes they had sooner.
Grow Together is our flagship collection: a bilingual conversation deck paired with two companion journals, made for couples building a life together. Have the conversation. Then keep what matters long after it ends.
Founding Members become part of the Youman Growth community from day one, helping shape the collection and receiving a guided email journey that begins the moment they join.
Love isn’t something we find. It’s something we practice.
Most couples do not stop caring. Life simply gets louder.
The days fill with work, children, plans, responsibilities, and the small decisions that keep everything moving. Before long, it becomes easier to talk about what happened today than what is happening between you.
Grow Together creates a simple place to pause, ask a better question, and hear each other again.
Not every meaningful conversation needs to begin with a problem. Sometimes it only needs a place to begin.
Meet the Grow Together Collection
Questions that bring you closer.
Grow Together is Youman Growth's flagship collection of relationship tools, made for those who want to keep knowing each other as they change. It begins with a bilingual conversation deck and two companion journals.
Each card presents the same question in English and Norwegian, making the deck natural for multilingual couples while remaining easy for any couple to use.
The questions move through the parts of a shared life that are easy to overlook: where you have been, who you are becoming, what matters to you, how you move through difficulty, and what you want to build together.
- 72 bilingual conversation cards
- English and Norwegian on every card
- Six thoughtfully structured conversation paths
- Designed for quiet evenings, date nights, road trips, and regular check-ins
- Made for couples at many stages of building a life together
The Founding Members program
Become a Founding Member
Founding Members help shape the first edition of the Grow Together Collection and receive a few things along the way.
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Early access
Receive access before the deck reaches the public.
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Founding pricing
Receive our best pricing when the deck launches.
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Shape the deck
Vote on selected questions, artwork, and future expansions.
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Behind the build
Receive stories, prototypes, and updates as we create the deck.
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The Grow Together experience
Begin a free guided email journey as soon as you join.
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Future first access
Be the first to hear about future decks, journals, books, and other tools.
A deck for the whole relationship.
The deck moves from lighter reflection into the conversations that shape how two people live, love, and grow together.
- 01
Historien vår
Our Story
Remember where you began and notice what your relationship has already carried.
- 02
Du og jeg
You & Me
Keep learning who each of you is, beyond routines, roles, and assumptions.
- 03
Grunnlaget vårt
Our Foundation
Explore the values, needs, boundaries, and choices that hold your relationship together.
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Livet vi bygger
The Life We're Building
Talk about home, family, money, dreams, and the future taking shape between you.
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Når det blir vanskelig
When It Gets Hard
Make more room for understanding, repair, and the things that can be difficult to say.
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Vi velger hverandre
Choosing Each Other
Return to appreciation, affection, and the small ways you continue to say yes to one another.
Not therapy. Not homework. A practice.
Choose a card
Begin wherever you are. There is no required order and no pressure to finish more than one.
Take turns answering
Let one person speak. Let the other listen without preparing a response.
Stay with what opens
Some questions will lead to laughter. Others may reveal something you have never quite said. Both belong.
No scores. No perfect answers. Just a place to begin.
For couples who want to keep knowing each other.
Grow Together is for couples who are building a home, raising a family, crossing cultures, navigating change, or simply trying not to lose each other inside a full life.
It is not only for relationships in difficulty. It is for people who believe closeness deserves attention before distance becomes the reason to pay attention.
Created from a life we are building together
We made the questions we needed too.
We are Kary and Taniye Youman, an American and Norwegian couple living on the west coast of Norway.
Our relationship has asked us to cross cultures, blend a family, become parents, move through loss, and build a home far from where one of us began. Through it all, we have learned that closeness is not something a couple secures once. It is something they return to.
Grow Together began with the questions that helped us slow down, understand each other more clearly, and speak about the life taking shape between us.
We did not create this deck because we have a perfect relationship. We created it because we believe a relationship grows when two people remain willing to be curious about one another.
Relationship tools for the life you are building together.
Youman Growth creates thoughtful tools that help couples and families grow together.
Our work begins with conversation because the way people speak, listen, and make meaning together shapes far more than a single moment. It shapes the home they create, the patterns they carry forward, and what the people around them learn about love.
Grow Together is our flagship collection, and the clearest place to begin. It opens with a bilingual conversation deck and two companion journals, the first tools in a wider practice of shared reflection and meaningful conversation. More relationship tools will follow as Youman Growth grows.
For every Founding Member
The Grow Together Experience
Joining sends you into a free email journey built around the same questions in the deck. No set schedule, just conversations, stories, and prompts as we create the deck together.
- Guided conversations
- Stories from Kary and Taniye
- Reflection prompts
- Small connection practices
- Sneak peeks from the deck
Included for Founding Members
7 Conversations Before the Deck Arrives
A printable guide of seven conversations to start now, while the deck comes together.
Available now for Founding Members
Become a Founding Member
Begin with one better question.
Help bring the first edition of the Grow Together Collection to life. Founding Members receive early access to the conversation deck and companion journals, a hand in shaping what we build, and a place in the Youman Growth community from the beginning.
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